I get it. I am not perfect.

Communication has always been one of the hardest things for me to navigate—not because I don’t know how to speak, but because understanding someone when our perspectives differ can feel like a battle. I’m learning that the real challenge isn’t just in expressing myself, but in genuinely listening when I don’t agree or understand. Whether I’m talking to a friend, a colleague, or someone I serve with, I realize that effective communication is so much more than just sharing my point of view.

“I might not fully understand, but I can tell this is really affecting you.” This simple phrase has helped me show others that, even when I don’t get it, I’m still here to listen. It’s been a real shift for me—learning to acknowledge the other person’s reality, rather than just waiting for my turn to speak. “I don’t feel the same way, but I can see where you’re coming from.” This mindset has saved so many conversations from turning into arguments.

The truth is, communication takes work. And I’ve found that the most honest, truest form of it begins on the inside. It’s not just about getting your point across; it’s about telling yourself, "I might not get it, but I’m willing to learn." Every time I approach a conversation with this openness, I can feel the difference. It’s no longer about winning or being right—it’s about building understanding.

"I didn’t mean to upset you, but I can see that I did, and I’m truly sorry." I can’t count the number of times I’ve found myself here, unintentionally hurting someone. But what I’ve learned is that apologizing, even when I don’t fully understand the hurt, is a step toward healing the relationship. "I might not fully get it, but your feelings matter to me." Those words go such a long way, especially when emotions are high.

These aren’t just things I say to my partner—they’ve become a part of how I communicate in every space. Whether it’s with family, friends, or colleagues, validating someone’s feelings opens up doors for deeper, more meaningful connections. We don’t always have to agree, but we do need to show up for one another in a way that creates space for people to feel seen and heard.

Next time you find yourself in a tough conversation, try this: "We may not see this the same way, but I want to respect how you feel." Communication isn’t easy, but it can transform every relationship when we approach it with empathy and a willingness to listen.

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