How do I answer that?

I have a Pastor friend. Great human being. Carries the world on his shoulders. I am not a Pastor (dont make that face), I admire how he serves as one. He lives to serve.

Yet, I wonder how is he served.

Ever wondered what it's like walking in a pastor's shoes? Picture this: A shepherd, sometimes feeling like he's on his own, juggling many roles from offering counsel, and visiting those in need, to church strategic planning. Whew! It's a ton, isn't it?

Being a pastor? Not an easy gig. It's like running a marathon – both mentally and physically. And hey, we don't want our beloved pastors hitting a wall, do we?

While pastors look out for everyone, there's a pressing question: who's got their back? Well, it's us – the church family. Remember Paul's words in 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13? He nudged us to cherish and support our leaders. So, here's a handy checklist on how we can show our pastors some love:

1. Keep them in your prayers. Not just any prayer. Deep, heartfelt ones. They have their own battles and, just like Paul once said, "Brethren, pray for us", our pastors too cherish our spiritual backing.

2. Trust their guidance. It might challenge us at times, but hey, if we believe God's spoken through them, then let's tune in and walk alongside them. It's a win-win!

3. Jump in and lend a hand. A pastor can't (and shouldn't) do it all. How about sharing some of that weight? Next time, ask, "How can I help?"

4. A little 'thank you' goes a long way. Everyone, pastors included, loves a pat on the back. Got an idea to show some gratitude? Go for it! And yes, let's not forget the pastor's other half – they're in this journey together.

5. Give them a breather. Just like we recharge on weekends, our pastors need their downtime too. And maybe, once in a while, a longer break to refresh and come back even more inspired.

6. Ensure they're well taken care of. Pastors pour so much into us, let 's return the favor.

7. Cut Them Some Slack; Pastors Aren't Superhuman!

Have you ever put someone on a pedestal, only to realize they're human too? Maybe your pastor comes to mind. Sure, they have that magnetic charm when they speak, but here’s a reminder: perfection isn’t in their job description. While we hope they reflect the spiritual and moral values from the New Testament, remember they're flesh and blood just like us. Hang around anyone long enough, and you'll spot a flaw or two. But unless there’s a serious concern, let's avoid the judgment. What they truly need? Knowing they’re seen, loved, and accepted – quirks and all.

8.They’re Not ‘On-Duty’ 24/7

Imagine being a pastor. A quick grocery run and someone’s sharing their life story with you. A leisurely walk in the park? Someone might need counseling. It's true; being a pastor doesn’t come with a punch-out clock. They're always in 'pastor mode', and while many thrive in these spontaneous moments, it’s worth remembering: they have off days too.

9.Share Your Spiritual Journey

If you've ever felt uplifted by a sermon, don't just say, "Great talk!" Share why. Was there a moment that sparked a newfound love for Jesus? Did their words help deepen your bond with God? Share these bits. These are the golden nuggets that fuel their passion and reinforce their purpose.

10. Join In; Don't Just Observe

Think of the church not as a service center, but as a community potluck. Everyone chips in. So, next time you spot a gap, don’t just nudge the pastor. Maybe it’s your cue to step in. The magic happens when everyone pulls their weight.

10. Be a better friend to them, not always a member.

Pastors might seem surrounded by people, but sometimes, they could feel quite alone. With their profession focusing so much on others, they too need some downtime, some genuine human connection. So, how about grabbing a coffee together and talking about... anything but church? Remember, they have hobbies, interests, and stories outside the pulpit. Dive into those. They'll appreciate it!

Guess I better hop to it.

The only way to be better is to do better.

#BetterToServeThanBeServed