From Worrying to Winning
- TJ DeLoatch
- Nov 9, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 13, 2023

I've been thinking about how we often get bogged down by worries and doubts. As a life and career coach, it's something I come across a lot, but hey, I’m no stranger to it myself. So, how about we mix things up a bit today? Let's go on a little mental adventure, just you and me.
Imagine for a moment that you're absolutely winning at life. Visualize that meeting where everything you say is spot on, or that interview where you're answering every question like a pro. This isn't just daydreaming; it's about prepping your brain for real-life success. When we visualize these wins, we're essentially training our mind to play the part.
Now, while you're at it, picture getting some really amazing feedback. The kind that makes your heart swell with pride. It's not about making everyone else happy; it's about acknowledging the great stuff you're capable of. Happiness is this wonderful mindset where we focus on the positive aspects, and it's something you can totally master.
Then there's the whole spotlight scenario. You know how it usually feels a bit daunting? Let's turn that around. Imagine yourself in that spotlight, shining bright, not shrinking away. Visualize the looks of awe and admiration from everyone around you. You're not just getting through it; you're absolutely rocking it. And believe me, that's within your reach.
How about we give worrying a break today? Think of your fears taking a little time off. It’s not about ignoring the challenges you face; it’s about not letting them dictate your life. Fear is a common feeling, but it doesn’t have to be the captain of your ship.
Now, let's deal with that nagging self-doubt. Today, let’s kindly show it the door. Start replacing those thoughts of 'I can’t' with 'I absolutely can.' The way we talk to ourselves is super important. It's like programming your personal GPS – so let's set it for someplace sunny and bright.
And finally, make sure to hold onto the good stuff – which is, well, all of you. Your strengths, your quirks, your entire being. Every bit of you contributes to your unique awesomeness. Embrace it all.
So, what's the game plan? Today, let's focus on what elevates us. Imagine the best, believe in your heart that it's possible, and start walking towards it. Remember, I'm right here with you on this journey. We’re in this together, and I can't wait to see where this path leads us.
Your Turn! I'd love to hear your thoughts or any steps you're taking towards embracing this change. Feel free to share your story in the comments. And if you need a bit more guidance, just drop me a line. Together, we can make these dreams a beautiful reality.
Till next time....
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