It's The Fumble For Me
Some conversations stay with you. Not because they’re shocking— because they’re familiar. You listen to someone explain a situation (situationship -lol) that doesn’t quite have a name. Not fully a relationship. Not exactly nothing. Just… something. And as they talk, you hear it: He said...She said... “Just a friend.” “Nothing serious.” “It’s not like that.” “Just a co-worker.” And maybe all of that sounds fine… until it doesn’t. Because at some point, the words stop matching
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Faith Doesn’t Make Sense. It Makes Miracles.
There are moments in life that don’t ask for your permission. They don’t check your schedule. They don’t ease their way in. They just… happen. And in a matter of seconds, everything you thought was normal shifts. Not long ago, I found myself in one of those moments. My daughter had a seizure. Not the kind you read about. Not the kind you prepare for. The kind that stops your heart for a second because you don’t understand what you’re looking at. Because I didn’t. I didn’t und
Mar 174 min read
Co-Regulation Is a Love Language (And “Let Me Know” Ain’t It)
Inspired by the post of one Mr. Nobody, writing from my phone. Let me say this clearly from the beginning. This is not about marriage. This is not a relationship advice. Please. Nobody is sending coded messages. Nobody is subtweeting their spouse. Nobody is about to forward this with “See?” attached (I know y'all-so somebody might lol) Yes, I know it’s Valentine’s Day weekend. I see the roses. I see the reservations. I see the matching red outfits and the soft lighting. And I
Feb 154 min read
