Don’t Hand Me What You Didn’t Pray About (Part 1)
A sermon turned blog… because my timeline is both saved and slightly spicy. So boom — this was originally a sermon. Like… I got up there and did what needed to be done.Bible open. Mic on.Lashes lashed. Audacity activated. But I’m turning it into a blog because everybody on my timeline is not “church-churched,” and I’m trying to walk the line between holy and hood without losing the message. Because listen — some of y’all can quote scripture and tell us where it lives. Some
1 day ago5 min read
Anyway. My Dryer Cut Off.
So I'm sitting under the dryer. It is HOT under here. Maybe, just maybe because Im changing names to 'Do Not Answer' in my phone . Dryer time is quality time...#iykyk I recently had some quality time. Time I didn’t realize I needed… which is usually how I find out I needed it. Sometimes quality time looks like a long phone call that starts with, “I won’t keep you,” and somehow turns into, “Wait—what time is it?” Other times it looks like sitting across from each other over
Jan 34 min read
I’m Not Everyone’s Cup of Tea — I’m the Spark
There’s a quote that’s been sitting with me lately: “You don’t have to be everyone’s cup of tea. Be gasoline. Set shit on fire.” At first glance, it sounds aggressive. Loud. Maybe even a little reckless. But the more I sit with it, the more I realize it isn’t about destruction at all. It’s about permission. Permission to stop trying to be palatable (thank you Webster). Permission to stop shrinking. Permission to stop softening your edges so other people can stay comfortable.
Dec 27, 20253 min read
